People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime.
お友達から送られてきたチェーンメールです♪だから、英詩ではありませんが。。。。このチェーンメールが言うように、確かに人生で会う人や起こることは、良いことにしろ悪いことにしろ、何かしら理由があるのかも知れないと最近良く思う。そして、今の私があるのは、家族、お友達、知り合いは、もちろんのこと、多少でも私の人生に関わった人達の不思議な「縁」のお陰かも知れないね。日々の全ての「出逢い」と「別れ」に感謝! People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime.When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.Thank you for being a part of our life!【メッセージへのお返事】Lovely8847さん>Lilywhiteさん、お友達もたくさん出来ておいでのようですね。>遅れましたがお誕生日、素敵な日を迎えましたね、おめでとうございます。>素敵なメッセージもあって良かったですね。>>チェーンメール、ですか、なるほどと思いながら読ませていただきました。>最後の文、It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.>blind の時にはお友達の必要な時ですね、clairvoyant,良いお友達の、洞察力が参考になりますね。お友達の多いLilyさんならいいですね。-----Lovely8847さんメッセージありがとうございました。そうですね、恋してblindの時にこそ、clairvoyantであるお友達が必要ですよね。今は、なんか物事が全てとっても良い方向に進んでいるので幸せです♪そして少しだけ大人になりました♪これからは、自分を窮屈な型に入れないで、肩の力を抜いて、リラックスして、自然体でいきたいと思っています♪