実力よりも運の方が上^^
こんにちは。今日は「実力よりも運の方が上」と言うお話です。会社に入って全く、実力が同じなのに出世するスピードが違う場合があります。なぜでしょうか?それは一方は運を味方にしていなく、もう一方は運を味方にしているからだと思います。学校では成績さえ良ければ褒められますが、社会では業績が良いだけでは上に上がっていけないようです。なぜなら人間関係でトラブルがあったらまず間違いなく上の人はその人を引き上げてくれません。だから、実力よりも運の方が大事だと思います。よく「人に媚びるのは良くない」と言います。でも上司をおだてることができないとしたら、お客さんの機嫌も恐らく取れません。お客さんの機嫌を取れないとしたら取引もできません。だから、人に好かれるということは才能なんですね。運が良い人はそのことを良く分かっています。どんなに実力があっても周りに嫌われたら出世は遅れます。実力があっても周りに嫌われたら、まず真っ先にリストラ候補にあがると思います。それだけ運というのは大切なものだと思います。上司から好かれて、同僚からも好かれて、お客さんからも好かれたらそれは鬼に金棒だと思います。だから、運って物凄く大切なものなんですね。本当にそう思います。実力がある方は勘違いしていて、「自分ひとりで何でもできる」と思って傲慢になったりします。でも本当の成功者はみなさん口を揃えて「自分ひとりでは何もできない。周りの方のお陰です」と言っています。あの松下幸之助さんも「私の実力は1%くらいです。あとの99%は運です」と言っていたそうです。それだけ周りの方からの援護がないと成功できないことを知っていたんですね。本当に運勢は大切なものなんですね。そして、その運が良い方というのは感謝を忘れない方のことだと思います。運というものは自分一人で頑張っても上がっていかないものです。周りの方が押し上げれくれるものです。ではまた。^^Hello. It is the talk said "One of its luck is a top from ability" today. The speed which goes into a company, and completely wins a promotion although ability is the same may be different. Why is it? I think that it is because one side has not made fate an ally in it and another side is making fate the ally. It seems that achievements cannot go up only by it being good upwards in society although it will be praised in school if even results are good. Because, if there is a trouble by human relations, the older man will not pull up the man rightly probably. Therefore, I think that one of its luck is more important than ability. It says well, "It is not good to flatter people." But supposing it cannot flatter a superior official, probably the visitor's mood cannot be taken, either. Dealings will also be impossible supposing it cannot take the visitor's mood. Therefore, being liked by people is a talent. The lucky person understands that well. However competent it may be, if it is disliked around, success in life will be overdue. If it is around disliked even if competent, I will think that it is seen as a restructuring candidate first of all first. I think that fate is so important. If it is liked by the superior official, is liked by the coworker and it is liked by the visitor, I will think that it is the more Moors, the better victory. Therefore, fate is terrible and important. I think so that it is true. He misunderstands the competent direction, it thinks "it can do anything by itself", and becomes haughty. [ one ] But a real success arranges the mouth which is not regarded and cannot do it at all by himself. [ "] [ one ] It is said that it is the favor in the direction of the surroundings." Also that Mr. Konosuke Matsushita "my ability is about 1%. It is said that it was said that 99 next% was fate." Did it know that it could not succeed, when there was no support from the direction of the surroundings so much? Its fortune is truly important. And I think that the direction with the sufficient fate is a direction which does not forget gratitude. Even if a thing called fate does its best by itself, it does not go up. [ one ] The direction of the surroundings pushes up and it is a thing. then -- again . ^^