子育て
Raising children Have you ever thought that you want children? In my opinion, probably, almost all the husband and wife that got married want children. To have children, it will be kinds of the joy for husband and wife. Children are irreplaceable existence for husband and wife. Moreover, husband and wife's atmosphere will be softened only by there being children. However, Can it be said that your how to raise children is right? If your how to raise children is wrong, it should be improved immediately. In contrast, when husband and wife cooperates each other and children raises, children will grow up wonderfully. But, I think it is difficult. So, today, I teach how to bring up the right children to you. First of all, I consider raising children requires an appropriate decision. What is an appropriate decision? For example, when husband and wife are blessed with children, husband and wife will have kept one life. There is only one life of the children. An alternative life does not exist. Therefore, they have to raise children with responsibility. It is impossible to raise children in a halfway feeling. Especially, children always look at parents and grow up. If parents have taken lax action, children will not enough grow up. For example, in Japan, because husband and wife took lax action, there is an incident which occurred. Certain summer’s day, one husband and wife accompanied by the child went shopping. At that time, they set the child in the car by the reason with an obstacle. As a result, Children were dead when they had come back from shopping because the inside of a car got very hot. The miserable incident in which their irresponsible action lost its one small life was caused. As you know to see the incident, a firm decision is needed in order to raise children. Secondary, some patience is needed for husband and wife bringing up children, for children are very selfish. Probably, there are few children who listen to what husband and wife say obediently. Therefore, they will feel it is difficult to bring up children. Eventually, they dislike bringing up children and they will leave children with their parents. It means child neglect. If they continue child neglect, what does it become? I think probably, children dislike parents and will avoid them. In addition, the husband and wife also may memorize an aversion to bring up children. If such a thing is continued, a certain problem will arise. It is child abuse. When children do not listen to what husband and wife say, they will persuade children using violence. As a result, there are dying children. Parents kill their children. Can you believe it? However, this is what may happen to all parents with children. Your patience is needed in order to prevent this. It will be difficult surely to bring up children. However, if there is enough your love, children will surely understand your feeling. Finally, it is required for bringing up children to take communication. Children cannot talk at first. So, parents have to understand their feeling from their face and behavior. When parents understand it, they can take communication with a child for the first time. By the way, my cousin has children. The children are still a baby. They have taken communication with a baby by various methods. For instance, when a baby began to cry suddenly, they sang the song, or played with the toy together, and were calming down the baby. And then, if children grow up to some extent, children will begin to memorize language. When they memorize language, it becomes easy to take communication with parents. However, they have to take care also about language each of because language has various meanings. So, parents have to choose language and have to talk to children. For instance, suppose that parents were quarreling in the face of the children. Of course, they will quarrel using dirty language. However, this does a bad influence for children. Since they can talk, self-assertion becomes possible. When children memorize dirty language, children may use it to other people. It will be thought that how to bring up parents is bad. Also, children who saw it begin to refuse parents because children regard parents as relations being always good. As a result, children will stop also hearing what parents also say. In conclusion, surely many husband and wife wants children. It is a fact. However, I want you to remember that many things are needed for bringing up children. When you bring up children without it, children life will not become fortunate.
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