愛・感謝　きっと大丈夫！何とかなる！

こんにちは。今日は「自分の存在価値」というお話です。何かやってあげて、相手から「ありがとう。助かるよ」と一言を言ってもらえると人はとても充実感をもらえて、人に優しくできるものだと思います。その一言をもらえないで、「仕事、家事をするのは当たり前だ」と思った時に夫婦の溝は深くなるのだと思います。当たり前のことなんて一つもない。失ってみて初めて気づく。家族の有り難さ。ご飯を食べれる幸せ。歩けることの幸せ。目が見れることの有り難さ。だから周りに「ありがとう」を言ったら周りが優しく明るくなること間違いありません。自分の存在価値を感じる時は自分が相手にとって必要な存在なんだと感じたときです。言葉に出して言うことが大切で、直接言わないと分からない人が多いです。だから、言葉に出して、「今日もありがとう。明日もありがとう。」言葉で伝えられない時は身近な人に手紙を書くと喜ばれますよ。気恥ずかしいときは手紙って本当に思いが伝わりますよね。ではまた。＾＾

Hello. It is a talk of "it existence value" today. Thank you [ " from a partner ] for doing some. If I have a word referred to as being saved", people can get a feeling of fullness very much, and will think that he is what is gently made to people. I think that the slot on the husband and wife sometimes becomes deep, saying, "Having thought it natural to carry out work and housekeeping" without being able to get the word. There is no one in a natural thing. He notices only after losing. A family's kindness. Boiled rice is eaten and it is happiness. Happiness of being able to walk. Kindness of an eye being seen. Therefore, if "thank you" is told to the surroundings, it is not different between the surroundings becoming bright gently. When feeling one existence value, it is a time of he thinking that it is an existence required for a partner. Taking out and saying to language is important and there are many people who do not understand unless it says directly. therefore, language -- taking out -- "today -- thank you. Thank you also for tomorrow. It will be nice, if a letter is written to a familiar person when not told in" language. When ashamed, as for a letter, a thought is transmitted truly. then --see you again . ^^