愛・感謝　きっと大丈夫！何とかなる！

こんにちは。今日は「他者否定は自己否定」というお話です。たとえば、３人の友達で話をしていて、誰かの悪口を言うとしますよね。その場は盛り上がりますが、話が終わった後に嫌な後味悪い雰囲気になります。実は他者を否定した後ってものすごく後味が悪くなるんですね。それは他者を否定することは自己を否定しているのと同じ行為だからです。今度、注意深く見てみてください。友達と誰かの悪口を言った後、間違いなくその場の雰囲気が重くなったり、後味が悪くなります。他者は自己の一部だと思うのが一番大切だと思います。他者は自分の分身だと思っておけば大丈夫です。他者を傷つけるとそれは間違いなく自分に跳ね返ってきます。だから、周りで嫌味や悪口、嫉み、僻みを言っている人を見つけたらあまり近づかない方が良いですね。自分も被害を受けますから。ではまた。＾＾

Hello. It is the talk "others denial is self-denial" today. For example, it is talking by three friends and suppose that ill of someone is spoken. Although the spot rises, after the talk finishes, it becomes atmosphere where disagreeable aftertaste is bad. After denying the others in fact, does aftertaste worsen extremely? That is because it is the same act as having denied self to deny the others. Now, please see carefully. After speaking ill of a friend and someone, an atmosphere on that occasion becomes heavy rightly, or aftertaste worsens. The others think it the most important to think that it is a self part. The others are OK if you think that he is its other self. If the others are wounded, it will rebound upon itself rightly. Therefore, it is better to seldom approach, if sarcasm, slander, and those that envied and have said the bias are found around. Since he also suffers damage. then see you-- again . ^^