Happiness as a Woman and a Wife] 4 - Happiness as a Woman, Happiness as a Man
https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=486822317029992&set=a.204590215253205Happiness as a Woman and a Wife] 4 - Happiness as a Woman, Happiness as a ManIf you look at the women who are making great efforts to study, to participate in society, and to be career women, there are very few of them who are happy.Is happiness really defined by status, honor, education, or the ability to use men as a leverage? No matter how talented they are, how intelligent they are, or how much money they make per month, when they are equal to men and assert their thoughts, they may gain respect as colleagues and friends.However, are you treated as women in the eyes of men? Are you recognized as women? I would like to ask them, “Are you happy as a woman in your personal life?Women are different from men. Even if you think that you have gained talent, status, or status in society, men are happy when they let their talents shine through their participation in society, because it is yang energy, and they are happy when they blossom in that environment. Women do not have the desire for dominance or power over others.Therefore, women do not have the same sense of happiness as men. Women are unconditionally happy when they are truly loved, protected, and cherished by the men they love.Women today may not realize this until they have achieved a position in a well-educated, high-income society and have lived out their power-hungry, egoistic lives and are no longer looked up to by any man. But even if you realize it then, it may be too late.Therefore, I am not saying that it is wrong to strive for personal growth and improvement. The days when women were forced to marry just to make ends meet without the right to choose their own lives by making themselves subservient to society, as in the past, have come to an end. It is very important for women to be independent as women.Today, women and men are finally able to receive education together. But in this context, we also need to discover something old and new. After receiving education and thinking about their own lives, today's women must once again find a way to learn how to become happy women on that basis.To be happy as a woman is not to live equally with a man by never giving up one's self-assertion and only one's ego. Because a woman washes dishes, a man must also wash dishes. If a woman changes a diaper, she must also change a diaper for the gentleman, and so on.When we see this and say such things to the men when they come home tired and gruff, can the men really save their energy for the work of being a man?The home is a place of peace. Today's women are bringing conflict into the place of peace. Men come back to the home to rest, to be at peace, and to find a source of love.In the absence of a woman who can comfort them, or to put it another way, in the presence of a woman who is equal to them in consciousness and superior to men, today's young men are unable to find comfort in this situation. This is also the reason why divorces are becoming more and more common in today's society.From your perspective, today's young men have probably changed somewhat. I believe that many of the younger generation are now comfortable taking care of children and doing the dishes. They have been educated that way.But what I see as a result of this is a weakening of men's true work ethic and masculinity. By mistakenly believing that men are not like men, and that taking the side of women and sharing household chores with them is the kindness they are expected to show, men are becoming less like men, just as women are becoming less like women. In the process, the boundaries of their mutual division of roles become diluted, they lose sight of what they are supposed to do, and, as a result, their marriage comes to a standstill.It is fine when you are young, as long as you live that way. But with age, men's egos still come out and they become more masculine in society.They may be able to take it easy when they are young, but the older they get, the harder it becomes to take it easy, and they may turn to adultery or cheating on their lover with a woman who can truly comfort them. In a sense, it may be the women in the water business who gently wrap their hearts by saying compliments to their pride as men.They are in business to make men feel at home and to restore men's pride, and they know this very well. Even though they know that his words are not words of love, men inevitably go to such places to seek comfort and vitality from his words of praise.However, I believe that women are responsible for pushing men into such places. Even men know that it is absurd to pay a lot of money to go to such places, and to be told false and false tricks, and to be happy in the midst of it all.But even so, I think women should be more aware of the fact that they have no choice but to resort to such behavior. They do not have to go to such places, but they can come home at once and enjoy a warm meal and a warm “welcome home, thank you for your hard work. If they had a warm meal and a warm “welcome home, thank you for your hard work,” they would not go to such a place, but would come home at once.If women can prepare a home where they are needed and where they can regain love, respect, and pride, rather than simply being a carrier pigeon that brings a paycheck, then men will gladly come home, risk their lives to protect that home, and demonstrate chivalry in order to be a king for that home. They will risk their lives to protect their families, and they will do their best to become kings and lords for their families. I, for example, understand it in this way.Konohanasakuyahime no Mikoto, from “Female Spirits of Japanese Shinto 1
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