みゅうにゃん　お散歩日記

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[The Law of the Man and the Woman].
11. marriage commitment

In most cases, a person decides on a marriage partner before he or she is born and comes to earth.
Although it varies from person to person, the marriage partner is decided from the first to the third candidate. Even if they are not able to marry the first candidate, they set conditions so that they will be able to meet the second candidate during their life on earth. Of course, we do not decide on our own, but with the other person's approval, we are born on earth.

Even so, there are times when the couple is not lucky enough to meet, or even if they do meet, they may not be aware of each other, and the marriage may not go well. In such cases, the guardian spirit may try its best to find other candidates and somehow make it possible for them to meet.

Generally, the guardian spirit will try to get the couple to marry. Nevertheless, some people continue to refuse to do so because of their free will on earth.

From my point of view, if a person has experienced several lives of celibacy in past lives as a monk, nun, or a clergyman such as a monk or sister, there is very often a lurking feeling in the heart that men and women should not be intimate. This can become a guilty feeling that torments the person. In such cases, it is also true that even if they were born determined to get married, it is difficult for them to reach the stage of marriage.

I hope that you will not be bound by such chains in your heart, but that you will release those chains one by one, which are many, and that you will find the courage to get married.

Of course, there are those, like artists, who have the male and female bodies united in their souls and have no intention of getting married at all from the beginning. They think that their works of art are their children. They come out with the determination to devote their entire lives to producing it alone.

If you don't feel a twinge in your heart about marriage, as in such a case, there is no need to force yourself to get married. This is not to say that you should “marry for everything.”

Manu
From “Gaia Reimei: This is How the Living and Conscious Earth Was Born